Ineffective relationship is a pattern of mutual partnership that is insufficient to provide for each others needs.
Defining characteristics of ineffective relationship are:
1. Delay in meeting of developmental goals appropriate for family life-cycle stage.
2. Dissatisfaction with complementary relationship between partners.
3. Dissatisfaction with emotional need fulfillment between partners.
4. Dissatisfaction with idea sharing between partners.
5. Disaatisfaction with information sharing between partners.
6. Disaatisfaction with physical need fullfilment between partners.
7. Inadequate understanding of partner's compromised functioning (e.g, physical, psycological, social).
8. Insufficient balance in autonomy between partners.
9. Insufficient balance in collaboration between partners.
10. Insufficient mutual respect between partners.
11. Insufficient mutual support in daily activities between partners.
12. Partner not identified as support person.
13. Unsatisfying communication with partner.
Gimana? Ngerasain salah satunya? Atau malah semuanya...hahaha
Lalu apa sih faktor yang menyebabkan sebuah hubungan jadi nggak efektif lagi?
1. Alteration in cognitive functioning in one partner
2. Developmental crisis
3. History of domestic violence
4. Incarceration of one partner
5. Ineffective communication skills
7. Substance abuse
8. Unrealistic expectations
Yang mana? Mungkin kebanyakan nomor 4,5, dan 6 ya.
Apa sih tandanya kita sudah ready berRelationship? Ya balik ke poin-point 1-13. Kalau kamu sudah bisa mengekpresikan kesiapannya,,,go ahead.
Sebaliknya, kalau kamu merasakan point 1-6 di related factors hmmm relationship bakal beresiko.
Source: Nursing Diagnoses; definition & classification 2015-2017